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Hey..so hows everyone doing? Aku biasa-biasa je, menternak lemak dan taik mata. Haih..tak membanggakan. Sobsob..This week has been a little bit slow, mungkin sebab kelas isnin aku dah 2 minggu kensel sebab lecturer takde, jadi rasa macam terlalu banyak masa lengang. Huhu..But thankfully assignment group planning dah repair. Rasa macam lega dan seronok sebab dapat betul-betul buat kerja as a team. Yelah, selalu nama je group assignment, tapi yang buat sorang dua je. Tak syok, rasa macam tak dapat belajar banyak. So yeah, i'm glad to have a great team members. Memahami dan tak mendesak..misa likey likey.
Ok back to the topic. So lets start with the definition of modesty. If you google modesty, the top answer would be the quality of being relatively moderate, limited, or small in amount, rate, or level. But if you google bersederhana, ahhaa..jawapannye lebih islamic. I think this one is a good read, click on the picture below. Bagi aku bersederhana dalam kehidupan maksudnya kita hidup dengan apa yang kita perlu, bukan dengan apa yang kita nak. Tak berlebih-lebih tapi tak pulak hidup dalam kekurangan. Semua orang tau tu, cuma susah nak amalkan selalu. Tapi sekarang ni aku rasa kalau define sederhana setakat tu je tak cukup. I think there is a new kind of modesty; social modesty. Hm..i don't think thats the right word but i can't really think of anything else. huhu
Terlalu banyak sangat medium untuk bersosial sekarang ni. FB lah, twitter lah, blog lah..youtube lah. Sekarang ni sibuk dengan instagram pulak. Bagus sebenarnya benda ni sebab senang nak share info, berita and etc. Tapi bisalah, ada baik ade buruknye..memang hukum dunia lah tu. And personally, aku rasa benda-benda social semua ni buat kita riak, dalam sedar dan tak. Contoh paling senang fb lah. I know we want to share our achievement with our family and friends, but don't share everything. Don't share all the details. We might have a thousand 'friends' on fb but not all of them are really our friends. Our real friends and family might wanna know news from us, but to others we're just showing off. So be careful. Don't go with "Tak kisah lah apa orang nak fikir. Ade aku kesah ke" Ada masa-masa memang sesuai fikir macam tu, tapi ada masa-masa tak. Ada masa pandangan orang lain boleh jadi tanggungjawab kita jugak bila kita yang cetuskan sesuatu pendapat/pandangan tu kan? Well..i think so.
Aku baru sedar kewujudan quote kat atas ni. Aku cuba hayati dan cuba faham apa dia cuba sampaikan. Tapi makin lama aku fikir makin aku rasa yang believing other people are jealous of your achievements are just ignorance. But don't get me wrong, i admit the existence of jealousy. Tipu la tak cemburu tengok kejayaan orang lain. Nature lah tu. Tapi cemburu tak bermaksud kita dengki, tak bermaksud kita tak happy untuk orang lain. Sama lah macam bila kita nak nasihat someone then dia reject nasihat tu sebab dia rasa kita jealous, tak pun dia rasa kita tak layak. Haih. Thats not always the case you know. Other people have achievements too. Jangan selalu buruk sangka.
Modesty
Ada orang di lahirkan cantik. Mashaallah, cantik yang amat. Dah la cantik, pandai pulak..tutup aurat pulak. Tapi tak rendah diri, takde modesty. Selalu sangat selfie. This is my unpopular opinion, but i hate selfies. Sekali sekala is ok tapi kalau sehari tu dekat 5 6 gambar muka sebesar alam masalah jugak. huu..Aku percaya yang aurat ni lebih daripada fizikal kita, definisi aurat ni lebih dalam daripada tu. Hikmah aurat ni bukan sekadar untuk mengajar kita tutup tubuh badan kita je, tapi untuk ajar kita merendah diri dan sifat malu.
So be shy. Be shy about showing off your beauty, your money or anything that might caused you to be conceited. Hmm.. conceited seems too harsh, macam tak sesuai pun ada. huhu..But what i'm trying to say is ; you don't have to tell people that you're successful to feel good about yourself. The opinion of others should not bothers you and won't change your true self. You should feel good because you feel good. Now don't go all "I post this for myself not for others to see." That is just denial. Because if its really for you then you don't have to post it at all. So control yourself. Be shy, its a part of modesty.
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- Friday, November 15, 2013
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